Meet the Team

As an alumna of Thayer, Melissa rejoined Thayer in the summer of 2014. Following Thayer she attended the University of Vermont where she earned a BA in Psychology. She came to Thayer with more than 15 years of experience in non-profit development. Her previous roles include Director of Development for Partners Continuing Care and the Spaulding Rehabilitation Network, Director of Major Gifts for Spaulding Rehabilitation Hospital, Director of Major Gifts for Horizons for Homeless Children and Director of Major Gifts for Walker. In that time Melissa worked on capital campaigns that resulted in the building of the state-of-the-art new Spaulding Rehabilitation Hospital in Charlestown, a new headquarters for Horizons for Homeless Children in Roxbury and a campus expansion at Walker. Prior to working in development, Melissa worked as a counselor for homeless and runaway teens at Bridge Over Troubled Waters and also sold residential real estate in Boston.

Melissa currently serves on the Board of Trustees for AccesSportAmerica, an adaptive sports program for people living with challenges and disabilities. The youngest of four sisters who all graduated from Thayer – Whitney Presutti ’85, Kelley Tuthill ’88 and Tracey Buckeridge ’90 – Melissa often says she grew up here. She spent many of the afternoons of her youth on the fields or in the gymnasiums watching her sisters compete in sports until she was able to enter as a sixth grader. Happy to be back, Melissa currently resides in Hingham with her husband and three children.

Genevieve joined the Advancement team as the Donor Systems Manager in June of 2025, bringing with her 11 years of experience in Advancement Services and Donor CRM systems. For the past 7 years, Genevieve worked in the University of Texas System as Development Systems Administrator and Development Data Associate.

A recent transplant from Texas, where she grew up, she is enjoying getting to know the Boston area. She received her bachelor’s in technology management from Texas A&M University and her master’s in management science from the University of Texas at Dallas. Genevieve currently resides in Quincy.

Nia joined the Thayer community in the summer of 2024, bringing a decade of administrative experience to the advancement team. She holds a degree in music business and songwriting from Berklee College of Music, and she worked in the admissions office of her alma mater for four years post graduation in May of 2012. She has worked as a director of musical worship and admin for several years before taking some time to be at home with her two beautiful girls. She is a lover of people, laughter, organization, and cares a great deal about the small details.

Renee joined the Advancement team at Thayer in the fall of 2021, bringing with her 15 years of experience in the non-profit fundraising events field. Most recently, Renee spent seven years at St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital as a Regional Development Director managing events all around New England. Prior to that, Renee served at two local performing arts institutions as the Director of Special Events at Boston Lyric Opera and Special Events Manager at Boston Ballet. Renee graduated with a Bachelor of Arts in English from Hobart & William Smith Colleges. Renee resides in Marshfield with her husband and two young sons. 

Caroline joined Thayer Academy’s advancement team in the fall of 2024. A native of Washington, D.C., Caroline grew up attending The Potomac School before graduating from Boston College with a degree in applied psychology and human development, concentrating in policy, advocacy and community change. Prior to Thayer, she worked in programming and community partnerships at Back on My Feet's Boston chapter. Caroline is excited to engage with young graduates and work with the advancement team to strengthen Thayer’s alumni community. She currently resides in South Boston.

Elizabeth joined the Advancement & Engagement team at Thayer in 2023, bringing with her 10 years of experience in IT Operations. Most recently, Elizabeth has been working as a remote United Nations Volunteer with multiple organizations in Cameroon focused on creating educational and micro-entrepreneurship opportunities for women. Prior to that, Elizabeth spent six years at athenahealth as an Operations Manager for their global Integration Services team. Elizabeth graduated with a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration from Salve Regina University. Elizabeth currently resides in Whitman with her husband and two children.

After graduating from Thayer in 1997, Matt earned a bachelor's degree in marketing from Providence College. He then pursued a master's degree in sports leadership from Northeastern University. Matt has worked in college athletics for over 20 years at both NCAA Division I and Division III programs. Prior to joining Thayer in January of 2025, he spent 13 years at Clark University as the head coach of the men’s soccer team as well as admissions liaison for the athletics department. In that latter role he designed and implemented department-wide recruiting events, oversaw prospect database management, read over 500 admissions applications annually, and worked with both the athletics and admissions leadership staff to streamline Clark’s recruiting and yield process. In addition, Matt has been involved with New England Futbol Club (NEFC), a nonprofit soccer development club. He has coached club soccer since 2012 and has served on a variety of selection committees that honored both the athletic and academic successes of college soccer student-athletes. A native of Norwell, Matt currently lives in Canton with his wife Kate and their three children.

Ray joined the Advancement & Engagement team in September of 2023 after managing Suffolk Construction's internal non-profit, The Giving Circle. With a background in psychology and professional experience in relationship management, she brings valuable skills to strengthening alumni donor relations, Alumni Board management, fundraising, and event execution. In her role, she is focused on re-engaging graduates and building meaningful connections that deepen their lifelong relationship with the Thayer community. Ray resides on the South Shore with her husband and two children.

Vassalotti's professional journey at Thayer Academy began in 1998 when she joined the Advancement team. Over the years, she has taken on various roles, starting as a Development Associate and progressing to the Director of Major and Planned Giving, her current position. Her most notable experience was working on the Campaign for Thayer Academy, the most successful comprehensive fundraising campaign in Thayer's history. This transformative campaign saw significant growth in the Annual Fund, a strengthening of the endowment, the establishment of the Thayer Sports Center Campus, and the new Thayer Academy Middle School.

Before returning to her alma mater, Vassalotti was the Director of Training and a Regional Operations Manager for a multi-location retail organization. After she and her husband, Michael ’79, graduated from Thayer, she attended Bates College and graduated with a B.S. in Geology.

Vassalotti is currently a North Falmouth resident and is very proud of her three children, Kristen ’07, Michael ’11, and Angela ’12. She is passionate about everything about the Academy and loves supporting strategic efforts to advance the Thayer experience for future generations of students.

Kelly joined the Advancement & Engagement team in the summer of 2024. Most recently, Kelly was vice president of leadership giving at Cure Alzheimer's Fund. Past roles include director of annual giving at Woods Hole Oceanographic Institution, director of annual giving at UMass Boston, and various roles at Harvard University in the Harvard College Fund, Graduate School Fund, and within the Harvard University Development Office. Kelly has a BFA in creative writing from Emerson College and a master's degree in communications management from Simmons. She lives in Weymouth with her husband.